The secret to a successful relationship with someone, is a successful relationship with yourself.

I believe everything about relationships is about YOU.

The only power you have in the universe is to change you. You can choose your own thoughts, which become actions, and over time become beliefs. Be the best person you can be for you. Treat yourself as you would desire others to treat you. Focus on you, you, you. Expect nothing from others. Give, give, give to yourself. Love, love, love yourself. Everyone around you will magically transform with you.

The better you get at this, the more others will bring you the parts of them that line up with you. They will end up treating you as you treat yourself, giving to you as you give to yourself, and loving you as you love yourself! If you can create a successful relationship with you, you will easily and effortlessly create successful relationships with others.

You do your part, and everything else will take care of itself.

Now, go fall in love!